How to increase your confidence naturally 2023
My confidence from 2021 → 2023 has gone off the scale. And not only that, it is noticable to people who knew me then and people that meet me now.
What is confidence?
Confidence as a man is much more important than you think.
It’s not just a behavior.
You have to understand that as a man, you should be your own hero.
You have to be capable and do things that seems impossible whatever your circumstances are.
If you’re broke and you’re not where you’re want to be, you can think graciously that it is most likely your fault.
And one thing that beats any argument:
If you have nothing to be proud of yourself for, nothing you’ve accomplished, or have goals that are way above what you’re sowing into yourself — it is nearly impossible to produce confidence.
So in that, i’ll tell you how to increase your confidence naturally.
When I was younger, my confidence was fu**ed
I had nothing.
Nothing to account for.
I just turned 19.
And in my defense, because I was young, I was comparing myself to other people.
I felt like I should’ve been farther, although I had no idea how far.
Even when I came into adulthood with all the planning I did.
Why as a man is undoubtable confidence important and why did it become so important to me?
Confidence is the manifestation of your accomplishments.
The man that you are and what got you in this position is not created in a reality that is isn’t real.
You got yourself there and self accountability is important.
And confidence is one of the only traits as a man that is widely respected.
There are people that will tell you that you have an ego because you’re proud of yourself.
You may not want to be around those people.
How do you develop confidence in 2023?
Now that we are in Q3 of 2023, or the last months of the year, nothing changes.
I want you to prove yourself wrong this year.
There are only 3 things that will give you uttermost confidence if you complete them:
1. Making the most amount of money possible
2. Drop all relationships and be selfish for a selected period of time no shorter than 6 months
3. Getting in the best shape possible
If, in this world full of oppurtunity, you do all these things together and force them into your block of time for a year or a selected period of time… You will impress yourself.
And 2 things are going to happen:
1. You will be so impressed with yourself and people will look up to you, get motivated by you, and maybe rely on you
2. Selected people will hate you. You will lose people in your life — but you shouldn’t care at hat level
And maintaining your confidence for a long enough period of time will allow you to never want to go back to your old self.
Action creates confidence.
The only way you maintain your confidence is continuing to prove yourself wrong.
Nothing ever changes.
Now that I mentioned 3 ways to gain confidence and maintain it, here are 3 ways you can lose confidence:
1. Going back to your old ways
Truly a shame if this happens.
2. Performing under your capability or losing your testosterone
Don’t get too comfortable, keep the hunger going.
3. Not caring anymore
Each time you go down, it gets harder to get up.
The only way you get used to winning is by your efforts alone.
It doesn’t feel good getting rich with no effort.
People that tell you that are lying to you.
Put in the effort, word your ass off, go to the gym, and become rich.
You probably wont die trying if you’re honest with yourself and realistic with how much you can actually achieve.
You need to take your own in 2023.
And you need to take care of yourself.
Thanks for reading
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